Thursday, June 24, 2010

HOW TO BRING OUT THE BEST IN EVERY SITUATION

Hey, hey, hey! Can't you see what am seeing? Common, Stop it!
In-case you don't know, let me lucidly posit that your life will not change until you change your REASONING. Your Reasoning will not change until you change your THINKING. Your Thinking will not change until you change your VIEW. Your View will not change until you change your OBSERVATION. Your Observation will not change until you change your PERSPECTIVE. Your Perspective will not change until you change your FOCUS. Your Focus will not change until you change your CHARACTER. Your Character will not change until you change your BEHAVIOR. Your Behavior will not change until you change your HABIT. Your Habit will not change until you change your ATTITUDE. This is actually where am going. Your attitude ultimately determines your LIFE. It does not really matter what you are going through , but your attitude towards it determines it all. The effect of what goes on around you is little compared to the effect of what goes on within you. Your attitude changes your habit towards things generally. Meaning you can change that which is bad or good in your life through attitude; vice versa. Your attitude determines the end while the end justifies the means.

This simply means that the most important thing in our life is not the situation around us but our attitude towards it actually make it good or bad.

I think by now you should be wondering if good attitudes are actually developed or inherited. Since good attitude is never inherited but developed. More-so, that we now know how far good attitude can determine our level of success in life. So, how do we develop good attitude?

To develop good and excellent attitude you need to believe the following:
1. Nobody can destroy your life without your consent.
2. Nobody is capable of creating any situation for you. Consequently, you are the architect of your own predicament.
3. Attitude determines it all.
4. You are limited as human.
5. God can still help.
Maybe we should start picking the above points one after ther other to discuss in detail.

No Body Can Destroy Your Life Without Your Consent
Please permit me to explain myself before your prejudice. We are all creation of God, and God our creator as not given us (human being) priorities over one another. Vis a vis, only God has total control over us as human. This is through for the joe and not the convicted, that were already subdue by the power of law of the land. To the hoi polloi, if you must loose anything, someone must have suck your opinion before hand. For every decision there must be a negotiation!

You Alone Can Draw The Map
Hope you have not forgotten that every minute of your past was a planting process; the present is the correction stage while the future will be the reaping stage. That is why it's important the way we live every seconds of our life. knowing fully-well that the second affects the minutes, the minute affects the hours, the hour affects the days, the day affects the years while the year affect OUR LIFE. Please note every little counts.

Nothing Is Bad or Good Without Attitude
It is never good or bad until attitude is involved. I mean attitude determines it all! Consequently, it is only bad when your attitude is bad and it's only good when your attitude is good.

Know Your Limit
Just as the sayings goes, "what you don't know will hurt you." Such is the case when it comes to human limitation.
Know your limit and prepare against them. Know how far you can go when effort fails. There is no point in deceiving yourself when you've run out of strength. Meanwhile, have not said you should quit when your strength fail but rather hold on. Nevertheless, the limitation of men is not really what interested me most to where you run to for energy. I mean, who is your source?

Call to God
Congratulations if you have made God your source; cause in Him alone rest the unlimited strength to flourish. Meanwhile, let me remind all those who love to make human being their source that ALL HUMAN HAVE LIMITATIONS! Don't you think is better to turn to God since all human are limited? I mean putting your trust in God will give you total joy without sorrow. I hope to see you doing well and flourishing in all.

Thanks for reading (Together we can make it!)